TRYING to enjoy the quietness

[kissak]

Actually I do plan on staying here. I have a very low mortgage payment. My home is 3 bedrooms 2 baths, 1 acre land and in a very nice neighborhood. I do not plan on going anywhere. My H is renting a 2 bedroom small house down the street for the same as my house payment....so it would be very difficult for me to find something better than what I have for less rent. People say I would be crazy to give it up! If I sold it, I could put a single wide trailer on the land my dad has given me that is closer to them, but I am not going to down size. I can afford this place. As long as my H pays his child support that is. My only other Big payment each month is my vehicle, but I only have a year left on it. So, once that is out of the way...I will be ok. Actually I have been making it on my own for a year now. He hasnt really contributed to the bills since the first bomb. The Lord has provided for me.

What I am afraid of is he wont have any pension or any retirement left in a year...he has already borrowed from his 401 and sold one of his stocks recently just to make ends meet.

I may just end up with the house. Which is ok...We have lived here for about 9 years and basically he always made the house payments...my income was used for food, gas and entertainment stuff....Im making it...like I said , as long as there is child support coming in.

Actually our area is growing so much. We live in a small community that is growing....million dollar housing developments going up down the road and all over...Im hoping the value of my home will go up one day....we got an excellent deal when we bought our house because the people wanted to get rid of it quick because they were building their own house....

I dont want to go anywhere. HOWEVER I do want the OW and him to move...or at least her. I have to pass her house every day!