Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
Welcome I will disagree about saying, "I'm sorry you feel that way." only because my h HATES when I say that and tells me to not apoligize for his feelings


I can see that ladybug. You could just say, "hmm". the point is to let him have the feelings, and not to judge them.

Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
One of the best things I heard when I came here was to not believe anything your husband has to say, and only 50% of what you see. Likely, he's going to say a lot of things that hurt you.

I like this one too. The thing to remember, though, is when they say it, they believe it. But that doesn't make it true. Whatever you do, don't argue about it, there's nothing good can come from that!