How can I let H know what I need when these images come up without seeming too needy or pushy. He is home but is still working on getting that loving feeling back for me. also working with C on his own issues. I too have this tremendous need to know and the knowing hurts. how do i find a middle ground. I have read after the affair and gave to H to read. He has yet to do so. The book was good but I find myself constantly comparing myself to her
