You see there were SEVERAL people there that I met while I was out with the OM. And knowing that they all know by now what is going on, it was a bit hard not knowing what OM told them about what happened between us to end things for good. OM has a my space page and I for what ever reason pulled it up and read some of the comments and read what he wrote as comments on others pages, he was not trashing me but he definatly outed me to a person or two.
Ah, that's just the price you pay. Hopefully a little reminder why it's not a good idea to get involved with something that can cause later regret and embarassment. It will all pass. I'm glad to read your husband is taking it well and your marriage seems to be doing fine.
I think a difficult thing about spouses having an affair is when the opportunity arises for the other, they have a good enough reason to go ahead with their own A. Hopefully your H won't find it a good excuse in the future to have another one himself (The "Well, you did it, why shouldn't I?" excuse).... and then you have one following. Yikes!!!! You'd think the trouble they cause would hinder anyone from doing it. But I think it's probably like childbirth. Yeah, it was painful, but in time you forget just how painful it was.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
