Welcome to Divorcebusting.com. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this situation.
In the short term...just listen. Just listen to what he has to say. Do everything to not react. You can do that.
If he asks you any pointed questions....just say you really wanted to listen to him and then have a chance to think about it before responding. Then do that, come back here and we'll help you work it through.
No two situations are exactly alike......but IN GENERAL affairs burn out. Some take longer than other. Figure 6 months to even 2 years. Michele has better solution oriented advice in Divorce Rememdy, and great insight as well. There is also good insight on marriagebuilders.com (Michele speaks at some of their seminars). Michele's advice, IMHO, is better...leaves you more options.
Hang in there.....at least for tonight.
I'll check in later......your fellow DBers will be here too.
You can do this.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
