SPM, I know you want her back. We are all a little crazy here.
I hope she does see how irrational her behavior is. I hope she realizes what is in the best interest of your children, which is to see their daddy as often as they can.

You wrote to me saying that "if it is possible to forgive yourself for not being perfect (and I sure hope it is)... then is it also possible to forgive your husband for not being perfect, too?" I know you will forgive her this, maybe you won't forget, but forgive her, I think you are the type of man who would.
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