JM and RTL - Thanks for chiming in, but I really see very little hope that even if my W comes to her senses that my M will succeed. I have, and am, giving it great consideration, but I have no love for that woman right now. My only reason for holding any hope of preserving my M is for the kids sake. Who knows what will happen, but I feel like I am ready to move on after we finish our parenting classes this month. Maybe I will still wait until July. It will give us more time to determine any fine detail to our parenting plan. However, if she wants to finalize a D before that time, I would be more than willing to do that.
I went out today and opened up my own checking/savings. I paid off D5's kindergarten and got my payroll to go to the new account. I need to change some of the auto bill pays to now be with the new account. Next week, after pending checks clear, I plan to move half our joint checking into this new account and if W does not want to go with me to do this, I will just write her a check and document how the money was divided.
I am not doing this out of spite. I dont want to be financing her anymore since we dont seem to be married anymore. She will remain on my health care until we are officially divorced.
I do want to remain friends with W as it is in the best interest of our children. She is even agreeing to look at some of the discipline/motivation system I just purchased.
