Don't let H make you feel like you pushed him to this and that makes you the bad guy. Wrong. He doesn't realize it yet, but someday he's going to truly regret his decision.
Detach, neecy. Cry here, vent here. Focus on you. Do what you gotta do for you and D. You are a brave woman for having stood up for yourself, and I respect you for that. One day your H will, too.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
