yeah - that was for sure one of our issues - I just viewed him as very lazy...but i totally get what you are saying.

I did resent him very much - after he told me he wanted out, some days he would seem very happy, and others, he would seem miserable...

Depression is something he should look into. He just won't hear of it though.

JennyB
Me: 29
Him: 29
No kids
Married: Nov/05
Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07
Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out."
2nd Bomb: August/07
I moved out: March/08
House sold, living apart
Waiting for papers...