I think you are entiled to a good cry, and to feel really bad and angry about that. Gosh, I know I would. In fact, I would probably anti-db and make some back-handed comments to H if the opportunity arose (the day of my "cry/anger fest".... but later on I'd have a friend talk me out of it, that's if the opportunity hadn't arose and I hadn't already created some drama).
It definitely wouldn't be a Mother Thesera moment for me.....
{{{{hugs}}}} to you sweetie. I think you are amazing.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
