What can I do about the guilt-is that what you are asking?

I cannot do anything. This is a journey only he can get out of.

All I can do is be here for him, assure him things will be fine, tell him it is okay. There is nothing anyone can do about another's guilt. This is part of the price they pay for going outside of the marriage. Some people it does not affect as badly but with my H, it is affecting him big time.

Andabelle: Based on your member date, it looks as though this is a fairly recnt MLC. Am I right? Be very careful. My H has been on this journey probably about one year prior to the bomb which would make it almost four years.

Peace: I hope my posts have been helpful.


Last edited by steelersfan; 03/05/08 09:34 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19