Originally Posted By: JennyB

The reason I started to push timg forward, is because it was looking like he was starting to take advantage of the situation.


what makes you say that?

Is there something specific he was doing, to make you use the phrase, "STARTING to take advantage"...?

or is it rather that you yourself just started resenting him, for him seemingly happier about your marriage situation than you are?

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I'm a bit of a homebody, and we are in a stage where all of our friends are having babys - so that means all of the girlfriends are home all of the time.

Do you mean by that, "you dont have anyone to go out with"?

you dont have to "go out".. you might just go spend time with them. i'm sure they'd appreciate the company?

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It's like he is baiting, trying to make sure that I'm still affected by it all.


maybe he is. Maybe he's trying to see if you'll say "I dont want this: i want us to stay married".


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle