Eve, I'm so sorry you are here also, but you will find lots of supportive people here.
As far as the lying goes, my H lied for months also. It wasn't until I had hard evidence that he finally admitted it, but he hasn't ever really expressed remorse for it.
Please prepare yourself for a bumpy road. There are some good outcomes, but it will be a long hard trip.
Hugs,
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon