Originally Posted By: JennyB
Should I just keep quiet about selling the house, and moving things forward with the divorce? Should I just see what he does with this time now?


i think so.

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Do you see any benefit in me staying at my mom's for now, even just to get away from it for a while?

What are you "getting away from", exactly?

is your husband abusing you? is he hurting you? is he in any way restricting you or limiting you?
Is he picking fights with you?

From what I read, sounded like kind of the opposite. sounded like you were the one who was picking verbal fights more.

Sounds like you are in control of the negativity level.
So... choose to control yourself, and go back?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle