Thank you thank you thank you everyone.
This is a nervouse time for me.

I am looking forward to the hearing - finally getting my say. Finally I have a chance at some justice. I hope the picture emerges clearly there.

My position will be - She doesn't want to be married to me, and there's nothing I can do about that. But her desire to dissolve our marriage does not justify a Domestic Violence allegation, nor does it justify me losing my access to our children.

I woke up not so calm today but as the day as gone on, I am calmer. I like the idea of the beta blockers but am a little shy of trying them the first time, in court. If only I'd had mroe time to try that out.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....