Just got call from h, finally confessed to going away for a few days to peds conf. in phiadelphia
H-i guess i should have to told you this sooner, i am going away for a few days. M-really where? H-to a peds conf in PA M- with her i gather cause she is going and it deals with peds H-silence-silence-silence-what? M-you heard me, with her right? H-no i'm going for myself. M-sure H silence-silence-silence M-ok are you going to tell me when you are leaving? and how long you plan to be gone? H-uh tomorrow, and i will be back very late saturday night. M-whatever, do what you must.
Then h goes on to try to tell me, he just found out he can go today. Huh you just spun in your own lie H. You just said you should have told me about this earlier, but chose not to, Now you are trying to tell me you just found out minutes ago? Nice try. I have know for over a week you were going.
Then he asks what can he make us for dinner. UGH!
I think he does not like getting caught in his lies. For he knows i know more and more about the truth.
His silence is deafening, No one can tell me any differently that she is not going. How stupid do you think i am H?
Well, I have a plan for the weekend. I have a ton of errands to do on friday. I am going shopping for new clothes and gosh darn it i will not feel guilty for buying one dam thing. HE can go and spend money for nignts in hotel room with her, dinner and such. NO I am not going to feel guilty for paying fulll price for a nice outfit. Not that this is glamours, but i am going to recork the bathroom tub. SHow him i can do it. I don't need you.
I also found out he is coming to my work tomorrow for training. I am going to dress my best with hair and makeup looking great. I know he will not come over by me. I will make it a point to go past that confrence room. You better believe it.
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Last edited by phbear316; 03/05/0808:59 PM.
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce