The snooping has stopped...it has obviously done more harm than good - though I am glad I made the call to see what her side of the story was. She would have absolutely no reason to protect him. But you are right - it can't and won't continue...
I guess now the hard part is giving up 'control' of the situation.
JennyB Me: 29 Him: 29 No kids Married: Nov/05 Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07 Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out." 2nd Bomb: August/07 I moved out: March/08 House sold, living apart Waiting for papers...