TRYING to enjoy the quietness

[kissak]

Thanks Ellie!! I really dont understand alot of what you said, but I will reread it until i do!! I wish I had a house worth that much!! But really, I have no idea what kind of money he has in his pensions and all...how can I find out?? I know we owe about $50,000 on our house. We could probably only sell it for about $90,000...just a guess. That is what we were going to ask for it when we were going to build our house.

The papers state that I may reside in the house as long as I desire...but if I decide to sell he gets first choice....Im thinking he is really messing up there....If I ever decide to get remarried, say I want to move somewhere else....couldnt I always Rent out the house...even down the road when Its paid for...It will be mine. He is only asking for somethin if i sell. What if I never sell it and someday make it a rental property....make some money off of it? That is a thought i have had.

Actually I plan on asking for both....we can keep the house the way it is, but I still think I am entitled to half his pensions also....But I guess if he wants to get fussy and say he wants 50/50 of house too....I dont know...I will talk to my lawyer tomorrow. Have an apt at 11:00 in the morning. He has no clue I am going to do this. He told the OW that he is surprised that I didnt come beggin him back since she werent going to take him!! He is begging her for one more chance. Right! Prove that he has changed. Anyway, I think it will shock the mess out of him if I have the papers back to him by the weekend! WITH the changes by MY lawyer.

He still thinks I want him back....He thinks he is irreplacable. Ok, right.