Bombs keep dropping - not meant to be??

[Jen_Jam]

YES!!!! I know this feeling .... they just won't open up, want to forget it all, pretend it never happened ....sigh

He thinks he's being doing things that make you feel loved ... but if you don't feel loved then he hasn't. You are not bing an idiot ... you are not stupid, and idiot, a mess, you are none of those. You fought REALLY DARNED HARD to get through this, i remember it wasn't easy for you.

Maybe ... just a thought ... I know you H doesn't appreciate the talk and draggin it all up, but can you set a timeframe on it? maybe something like "3 months after the baby is born I would like to finally put this to bed". If he says it should be, well if you can calmly state that it ISN'T for you and would he help you ...

Sorry, I feel a bit clueless tonight. I've posted to 2 others tonight ... SD who's H is a big head in the sand guy and Eve who has just found out her H has been having an A ... it all seems like doom and gloom right now.

Can you hang in there until after the baby? Then at least your H doesn't have the brush off "it's hormones" to give you.