H just called. He spoke to my dad...and he was looking for more info from me. We talked for a few minutes and then he started telling me how I haven't changed. That I am still keeping things from him (he always thought that I was keeping things from the business from him...not).
Anyway, I told him that I did not know that he was getting sued and I apologized for not telling him I was. He said that the copy of his letter was cc with my letter...but I do not have a copy. Of course he thinks I am lying.
He then starts in on how he loves, but not the same way, and if he came home we would live in a dysfunctional family.
I finally said to him, after he brought up s15's not speaking to me and the fact that he would kick his a@@ is the roles were reversed and it was me s15 was not speaking to. I told H that s15 is just like him. He thinks he is right. Noone can tell him otherwise. He made up his mind and noone can change it.
I told H that I let him go.....I am living for me and the kids. I told H that he is free to do whatever. He then says...if you let me go, then sell the house. Not gonna happen. Not doing his dirty work. Sorry.
Am I being ridiculous? Have I blown it by being so blunt with what I told him? I really have had it up to here. I am tired of being blamed for the past. I am tired for him not recognizing changes I have made for me. I am tired of him throwing the "dysfunctional" label at me.....
