I agree with everyone here. I think that the sheer fact that H sent and email is very positive. He appears to be opening up a bit more. It's always difficult to get pass past hurts. I think he needs assurance that you won't snoop anymore and even though he is with OW snooping is never justifiable...trust me I'm a pro snooper.
I think he's seeing the change in you and is afraid that he might like them.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*