No one to turn to- 2

[addie]

That is so crazy about the affair spouse getting so worked up that the betrayed spouse snoooped into the affair. I would say that the affair is a much worse betrayal than snooping.

I agree wholeheartedly but just about every sitch I've read, the unfaithful Sp seems to have the same reaction when they find out BS has been snooping. Again, it is all very scripted and I guess this should make me feel better that H is following the script.
I now realize that there's no advantage to continue snooping - I was the one suffering by doing so.