Moved out Sunday...very upset.

[JennyB]

I have been at the house with him for 7 months, and we live separate lives. He knows how I feel about all of this.

As far as he is concerned, he is done, and there is no discussion about it.

This is the most painful part - I feel like I have to finally let him go, I'm just fearful of what he might do in the meantime. I guess it's just part of the process.

When things like this happen with us, it's always out of the blue, and I have no say in it. It's like he gets into the funks.

The only good thing about me being out of the house is that now he can finally see only the good that I want to show him, and not the enemy he perceives me to be.

Do I "go dark", and just deal strictly with the dog and the bills? Or do I make conversation?