thank you sf for your posts it definitely helps to understand the struggle these guys go through and the gentle no pressure way you deal with him I can only do it part of the time as I get so frustrated and H tries to bait me hopefully, I will get to this stage and it really helps to watch another sucessfully deal with it peace
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