save a spot, will be here at some point

[cat03]

Not taking care of yourself in the D is not in your interest or in your children's. He is worried about MONEY and GETTING IT DONE.

thanks for the wake up call OT, so glad to see you visiting my thread)))))))))

Just read on this board another post about how worth it is to see an L. I can't really afford it but I will do it, even if for one hr.

H has a vasectomy can't have kids, 2wks ago had the audacity to ask me if I could pay for a reversal since he did it mostly for me and that he might, maybe in the future, have a family, I thought that was suspicious, I was fuming and he appologized, said he was just trying to cover his bases. So no, she isn't (I was thinking that too! lol).

Thanks again guys! I told him to stop bullying me, that I wouldn't agree to anything 'til I knew my rights, we agreed on asking the mediator if that was ok, and that maybe I'll think about it then (the 4mths).

I have a good name of a L already. And no, i'm not ready to sign anything, H is just itching to have something in writing anyway/someway.