Originally Posted By: minkerman
Tree, you shouldn't have asked her if she was mad at you...that just opened the door for her to unleash.


i dont think there's anything wrong with that.

What matters, is how he handles the explosion.

Personally, i think he handled it very well.


as far as your "that's not confident behaviour" comment... you can be confident about yourself, but still notice, and care, if someone has some built up resentment at you about something.

"confident", and "not giving a damn", are not synonymous.
Just as "detaching", and "not giving a damn" are not synonymous.


Last edited by Dom R; 03/05/08 06:48 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle