Originally Posted By: addie
H emailed me this afternoon and I would love feedback from others.

Does anyone see any positives in what he wrote?


Addie, I think what he wrote is neither positive, nor negative. He's still in the fog and he writes just that. It sounds more like journalling ... He probably thought he was letting you know where he is right now.

Now what I see as a positive sign is the fact that he has written to you at all! And I don't think that he is buying time to be with OW. He is buying time to think things over, while dragging the OW along on the leash!

He keeps bringing up the same things because he is stuck with them circling in his mind until he is ready to move on to the next stage.

Just my 2 cents...


I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08