Jeff:

I was thinking last night...things are seemingly going better since the compliments started flowing.....so if you decide to "have your talk" be prepared for the confrontation that could come. I think a good response to W if this happens is for you to calmly say....I don't want to argue, I want to try to make things better in our R...maybe when you're in the right frame of mind, we can discuss this further....and then just walk away. What do you think? I think you shouldn't let her draw you into an argument because we all know how that goes. ?????

Just wondering!

Have a good day!

BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally