here comes the sun.,...It will be alright

[cw68]

if she interprets your laid backness as a lack of responsibility, (which I know it isn't) and so she just worries about it all by herself.

This probably is true. I know that my husband used to love my care-free attitude. Even wrote in an early anniversary card, "let's stay care-free together forever" but said a few months ago that it now bothers him. Said that we have more responsibilities now and he expected me to be more responsible as we grew up and was bothered that I didn't.

I now understand what he was talking about and have stepped up to the plate in terms of finances. It's required him to do some letting go and me to do some planning. Hopefully he appreciates it, but even if he doesn't I've grown in a positive way.