I completely agree w/ your take on SPM's court situation. Once his W's crazy stories are out in the open, where will she be able to point the finger? Will she say that SPM lied and hid documents and evidence from the courts? Who will believe that? How will she face her family and friends who she's told all these awful, untrue stories to about SPM? It will be public record and indisputable.
I am in the same boat w/ our pending parenting evaluations, so I too can completely understand SPM. I think he's completely in great shape here and let's hope our judicial system is worth their salt and does the right thing.
Keep going SPM. You are doing the right thing, and despite the difficulties of it all, you will prevail.
