Sir -
Just a thought. Can you go to court and remain totally calm, cool, and in control? If so, great. If not - if you think you might get emotional, or angry, or allow W to push your buttons - take some precautions, okay? One long-time poster here had an H who made absurd allegations, but got the judge to believe him because she would get anxious and shaky and appear like a "hysterical woman" in court (as she was getting shafted by his outright lies.)

One solution to this problem is to ask your doctor for a prescription for a very tiny dose of a type of blood pressure medicine called beta blockers. They work by keeping your heartrate from rising, and are often used in small doses by performers to control stage fright, because they dampen that adrenaline reaction.

(I would stay away from any valium-type drugs, which could make you appear intoxicated).

Of course, if you feel confident in your ability to appear calm, cool, and collected, you don't need anything else.

Ellie