He told me about the A after it had been going on for 18 months. It ceased within a week of me knowing. I was very explosive when I found out and very vocal!!!!! That helped in my sitch as my H thought I didn't care about him anymore - I think my reaction showed him that wasn't a correct assumption.
Do you live in the Middle East permanently or are you over there for work?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength