I have trouble remembering or even finding out who is where in their sitch..are they separated, if so how long, living together, OW or OM still involved, divorced, back together, etc. Some people put it in their tag, some don't. I would find it very helpful if on the profile or tag we could just list our facts. It might make it a lot easier to post helpful replies if I knew where the poster was in their sitch with out having to read tons of threads.
I also think it would be great if there was a thread for MLCer who came back and were willing to answer questions about what their feelings were. I feel I could learn so much from the other side. I know some MLCer do come back to earth. Boy would it be great to hear from them as to what is was like for them. I think they need their own place though, as some of us are not ready to hear all, and some of them are not ready to hear us.
