I agree, while we are standing, we grow...we look within ourselves to find what we can change within ourselves...to make ourselves better people. We see how our M's were not perfect, how we were not perfect...but we can strive for perfection, always.

Hugs,
V

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller