Thanks Sir and NG. You're right, you're right, I know you're right!
H and I are going out on a date tomorrow night, at the c's suggestion ( )... but h found a sitter on his own. I'm excited and glad he followed through on getting the sitter. Now we have to find something fun to do.
Sigh... the quote is from "When Harry Met Sally", Carrie Fisher's character, Marie.
So, we were supposed to go out on a date on Sat night, but h got sick with a fever so we had to cancel. He stayed at the house Friday night through this morning (Tues), so that was nice, although I wish he wasn't sick, the weekend went pretty well. We're planning to go out this Sat. night.
We've also been planning a family trip for July and our usual Memorial weekend get-together with my college friends. I think I can count the planning as a "goal met", as one of my original goals was that we would be able to talk about the future together and make plans to do things together and as a family.
Here's to meeting goals! That's awesome that you're planning that far ahead for a trip together! I hope to one day be at that point.
He must have felt that being at your place was a comfort for him when he was sick. I don't know about you're H but I know mine likes to be taken care of when he feels under the weather.
Keep us posted about Sat night, and good luck.
E
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
Thanks e, UD and peace. I really appreciate your encouraging words. It's hard not to feel hopeful when I compare how we are interacting now to how things were 7-8 months ago, when he didn't want anything to do with me.
H has slept at the house for 7 days straight (combo of on the couch and in bed with me- no intimacy). I didn't even realize that it's been a full week until this morning. Hmmm...
)... but h found a sitter on his own. I'm excited and glad he followed through on getting the sitter. Now we have to find something fun to do.
