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My H insists there isn't/hasn't been anyone else but you know a wife has a gut feeling. I am so impressed by you. I look up to you. I have beenr eading and not posting much to your sit. but have quietly learned some things that I hope to put into play one day.

I am rooting for you just like everyone else. I would certainly imagine he is having a terrible internal struggle about all the hurt and betrayal he has caused and is like a little kid that knows they did wrong and has to fess up and ask forgiveness but is so afraid to do so because of the possible ridicule and consequences. You know like we tell our kids not to lie, always tell the truth even if the truth means you will get in trouble you will get in much less trouble than if you were to lie about it. That is how I see your H right now, that little boy struggling with the lie and the harm it caused.


Both 35
T 19/M 15 years
S8/D5
It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07

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