Well, you might think so. But in a case like this, grandfather's criticism is unlikely to be helpful.
The criticism might not be helpful, but turning your head the other direction isn't either. I dealt with this first hand. Some of my X's family told them what he thought....other ones rolled out the red carpet for OW. Yesterday OW gave birth to my X's baby only 7 months after our divorce. At least the ones that told him what they thought...can say they did all they could to help him....the other ones only helped create a disaster.
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