Just_Me makes a good point. Some of the dance is partially games, but most have to be honest strides forward. Not that what you are doing is bad, just try to actually go out with friends.

Other than that, it sounds as if things are going well for you. As well as can be expected. Let her take as much time as possible. She is still seemingly very confused. Be careful. She will be trying to test your limits. Be supportive but not needy. Work on yourself. Continue making improvements. Think positive thoughts.

Ken
Me: 37
Her: 38
Son: 8 (spina bifida)
Son:2
M 6/24/1994
S 1/21/2008
Original Sitch