Yes, talk about being blindsided..with 1000 tractor-trailers..
As far as meds, or even counseling...I wish she would, problem is, I don't think she understands the severity of her problem.
Nor, does she think the past can be done..and and a new M can be rebuilt..I think that is the kicker for me. I feel that this is so incomplete...no closure. Although I am just about there. I know she still cares, but can't get past what she did..
Man, never thought I would be in a real-life soap opera..lol
God bless
Chevelle
Chevelle,
No, the past cannot be undone. One cannot "unring" the bell. However, she could admit her mistakes and really try to build a new M. She chose not to do so.
I know what you mean about the no closure thing. I felt that when my exW left, she still had a lot of feelings finally coming to the surface. We had a very good fight the day she moved. She actually showed some passion and emotion. We never had that "final" heart-to-heart conversation....
I finally came to the point where I realized she is who she is based on her actions NOT who I thought her to be. She was not the loving, caring, devoted Christian woman who would not hurt me or our M. Rather, her actions showed she was just another screwed up self centered person lacking integrity. That is just who she is....
Go with God,
RMG
Last edited by RMG; 03/05/0803:22 PM.
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