H knows what he wants and who he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
I want him to be able to come home when he feels ready and I have told him that and he is in agreement.
I don't think it has much to do with OW anymore because the way he sees it, it is the guilt and damage done that is the real hold-up. I base this on the talks he and I have had.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19