Sounds okay. Nothing is likely to happen rapidly given what she told you earlier. You handled it okay and have at least done some things outside the house.
One thing I'd ask you to consider is your GAL activities. What if you were to actually get back together? What if she liked the fact that you were doing these things with "friends" and wanted to be part of it? She can't really be part of pretend activities. I'm suggesting that you should actually do some activities that you enjoy or really go out with friends from work if possible.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
