But you need to think about what you are willing to accept. If he decides to follow your expectations and comes back home, will you take him back??? Just a thought.
I am willing to take him back if he follows my expectations, today. However, I am not certain that I am mentally strong enough to withstand what others on these boards have and wait it out once he has left the house especially if he moves in with OW. I do not think that I can be the person that would "shine a light back to our marriage" if he moves in with her.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009