Have you ever thought that your W may consider herself the 'adult' in your M when it comes to the finances and things. You are a really laid back guy, (that'a a compliment not an insult ), and I was just wondering if she interprets your laid backness as a lack of responsibility, (which I know it isn't) and so she just worries about it all by herself.
When you are in a place, where you can't see the wood for the trees, you can lose your sense of priorities. To your W, I expect the financial situation is a much bigger thing than it is to you - will she talk about that with you so you can help her diffuse her fears?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
), and I was just wondering if she interprets your laid backness as a lack of responsibility, (which I know it isn't) and so she just worries about it all by herself.
