Today, I decided to move back to my Mom's. It has been 7 months since he told me he wanted out. We are leading very separate lives in the same house. I finally broke today - I can't bear it anymore. Everytime our situation comes up, he reminds me that he does not love me, and wants out of the marriage. There is a lot of anger and resentment coming from him, yet he has not taken any steps in 7 months to move things forward...

Some days I'm positive this is the right thing, but others, I feel hopeful. But I'm starting to forget why I even want him anymore. We were so good, and then it just changed for him.

We have had an agent in to see what we can get for the house. We have talked finances, and I have started packing.

I have asked him if he has started dating anyone, and he says no. I am not dating anyone either. I believe as long as we are still married, I should not date.

I wish I wasn't as hopeful as I am, but I can't seem to help it.

More input would be appreciated. I've been crying for the last three days.


JennyB
Me: 29
Him: 29
No kids
Married: Nov/05
Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07
Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out."
2nd Bomb: August/07
I moved out: March/08
House sold, living apart
Waiting for papers...