Thank you Grace and anew2moro....

I do have a lawyer in mind...

My H has in the separation papers Dec 26 07, which surprised me because he moved out in Sept....I will keep it that way. Actually the OW told him that they werent valid because we were together once in Feb...so If I wanted to I could extend till then...havent decided yet. Also he seems to be very generous on the house. I am allowed to live there as long as I desire...if I ever decide to sell, he gets first option to buy at MY ASKING PRICE! Then he only has to pay 80% of it, or if I sell to someone else he gets only 20% after all costs are taken care of. Pretty good deal in my opinion. BUT the part about his retirement says his retirement and iras remain solely his...WRONG! I am entitled to half and that money was put there because we were going to retire off of it, I do not have any retirement plans or iras....Am I being selfish? I will talk to my Lawyer about this.

oh me...here we go. I can do this. I am ready to finally do something! Going to have a good day.

I just cant get over that he said "I" was crazy!! That my whole family was crazy! OK, my dad to this day still likes my H. Doesnt agree with how he has been behaving, but still thinks he is a good person who has lost his mind. BUT still he likes him.

Whatever!


Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10