Just thought of this. LN, you said your W came back because she felt "safe" with you.
I think my W would feel safe right now, knowing there was no R pressure. I don't want her to think there will be unrelenting pressure from me every time we interact.
That goes into the "what isn't working" column.
Once again, I won't be dating. I just want her to know that what she told me the other night was heard by me, and that I have detached.
To this point, I have communicated to her that I am waiting for her, and would continue to do so. Didn't work. So now, this is different, unexpected behavior. Maybe it will do nothing, but maybe it will get her thinking....
