I having posting in Piecing - not b/c we were, just b/c i goofed the original posting..don't know how to link, but threads were intitled: All hope is lost & All hope is lost 2 & Hoping to get H back 3.
Just found out that H IS HAVING AN AFFAIR, with the person i thought he was 12 months ago.
I have seen emails and email hotel reservations, a photograph of them having a coffee/lunch together.
Apart from feeling extremely sick right now, its the lies and decept, I asked him 12 months ago if he was having an affair with this woman, he denied it.
She has issues with family, her H had a stroke which left him unable to talk or walk, she has withdrawn £60,000 from the business and £600 a time for hotels etc.
She left her h at the end of last year, citing his violence towards her. I don't know if her H knew then, but he knows now and is devastated.
I think they have a long term plan.
He has been summouned to see the big boss at work this pm as it has huge implications (We work together). The boss will tell H that he has told me of the affair this morning and sent me home, where i will wait and see what H will do. If he has any respect for me he will show up and want to speak to me, at least thats what i'm hoping he will do.
