BobbiJo, what is your sorority? Maybe we are sisters
As for the phone, been there done that. I was so proud of myself for not looking at H's phone while he showered those days he stayed here last week. I know it would have hurt me if I did. I figure the fact that H left it out shows he is regaining trust in me. The phone is in my name so I can findout who he is calling/texting and when each month. It is probably online for last month now. I am going to resist the temptation to look this time. What will it do other than make me feel worse. I know he still talks to her. It will probably be better that your H gets his own phone. Try to trust him. I know that is hard. I am hoping that if I show more trust in H he will realize I'm his better option. Make yourself your H's better option.
I have a snowday today! YEAH!!!
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Suddenly I remembered something I heard a teacher say to a kid tattling in line the other day "Johnny, are you taking care of you and you alone right now or are you worrying about what someone else is doing??" Guess if a second grader can learn that lesson so can I.....
That is a profound statement. I always tell students, "When you are perfect, you may tell me what others are doing wrong." I guess I should take my own advice and perfect myself and let H take care of himself.
