BBJ,

I hope that you slept last. Remember that the only thing you can control is you. You can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do. All you will do is reinforce whatever concerns he has about your M.

Try to stay calm. Take deep breathes. This won't be that last time something like this will happen. The most important thing is what you allow it to do to you. Be strong, be calm and most importantly realize that only you can make you happy.

You're a special woman, a great mother and a really good friend. Plus as a former pom leader and sorority girl you must be cute. Therefore, you have everything and a bag of chips. Realize it and find whatever inside you makes you special. Nuture it and let it grow.