Z - Great words again. You are wise!

I'd like to learn more about MLC as I become more and more convinced that's what we're dealing with here. I've done a ton of reading about it and everything fits perfectly - from the triggers right through the words and actions I see and hear.

Problem is, it seems that although I can learn what they're going through, there's almost NOTHING I can actually do about it. We all want to help them, but can't and it's very painful to see them hurting. I'd give anything for her to see me as a source of strength and relief, but her mind simply will not allow that, in fact it sees the opposite.

Hang in there BT - you're a good man and we're all with you.